tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-139394652024-03-07T14:05:09.046-08:00notes fromT h e 'K a n E W AJBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.comBlogger608125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-33678217369440246662011-04-19T18:58:00.000-07:002011-04-19T21:32:01.453-07:00I've been at this a long time. Not only do I know where all the bodies are buried I usually have a pretty good idea who dug the holes. Today I took a time out and stayed home and wandered. There's a restlessness in me at the moment that has less to do with lack of anticipation and more to do with the swirls of change that perfume the spring air.<br /><br />Across the streets, moms and dads pick up little boys who have been at practice. Lacrosse. Lacrosse! Had a snow storm here on April 15th. Watched the snow blow, whirl and dance around the rooftops and skyscrape of the downtown in The 'Kan EWA . Less than a week before Easter. It's spring but people in the neighborhood still walk in parkas and wool mittens and fleece hats. I just waved to a guy down on the sidewalk and he waved back and bellowed BRING ON SUMMER. Huge devilish grin...<br /><br />I tell the story, lots, about the milkman who got up at 3 am for 37 years, delivered milk and was home by 11. Then taught himself, over a 37 year period, how to paint and now produces the most utterly stunning canvases of ghostly spectacles, people and chickens. He's the rave of the art world here and a luminary in my life. I have two of his pieces and I think about him everyday. I have never met him. I don't believe I need to.<br /><br />I still have to explain to people about my thoughts on productivity, work product and inspiration. I still work and collaborate with some of this world's smartest people. Their ideas and the work we do together still race like colorful neon tubing though my thoughts and prayers and end up in my heart and my gut where I keep them so I can get to them when I need to. I search the faces at charitable benefits now for unlined, ungray smiles for the newspaper. It is a surprise to see the color of spring become a neutral palette this year and see these newly neutral hues populate my life.<br /><br />Sunny comes by and with no hesitation, crawls up into my lap. Such honey. Such sublimity. Such dazzling, unneutral light. I let her play in the fire and we chat about what makes a good Easter gift. She's full of great ideas and insight. It's very cold but she's calm and easy in a t shirt and jeans. Bobby comes by on his way to the hockey game and is scared because Sunny waves a stick in the air that has a smoking, glowing end. The fire roars orange and gold now.<br /><br />It becomes unnaturally quiet as the last kid is picked up and the people and families of my neighborhood go into their houses to eat dinner together. It's like the entire world here has paused and crystallized and is holding the pose for me to capture, record and keep for always with the weak, thin light of spring standing by as I shiver in the cold evening air. <div><div><br />Change is warming up in the bullpen. No doubt about it.<br /><br /><br />JBelle<br />Bellemaison<br />The 'Kan EWA</div></div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-31595458837477847752010-12-11T14:02:00.000-08:002010-12-11T14:03:52.689-08:00All right, all right, all right. They brought me up short. But if we'd been thinking about it, we'd have all seen that coming. After a long, delicious nap, I zipped up my down vest, jammed my fur hat back onto my head and headed out into the Berlin evening, the night air snapping and cold around me, the sky dull with the snow that's coming tomorrow. I walked down the Friedrichstrasse and ended up at Checkpoint Charlie, or rather, the Checkpoint Charlie Museum. This was the border crossing, the legal one, between the east and the west. The actual guard shack stands in the street still, but is now flanked by the ubiquitous McDonald's. Ah, the burdens of freedom. It is a magnificent museum, if it smells of something unidentifiable but undeniably rank. But maybe that's all part of it, helping to make this museum so real, so visceral, so authentic. They have the stories and exhibits of of the cars, suitcases, and surfboards (!) that people used to smuggle themselves to freedom. They have one huge room dedicated to the memory and honor of Ronald Reagan, who they give huge credit and have gained huge inspiration from. They have the stories of the people who died trying to cross and the testament of the outrage and frustration of the people on both sides of the wall; it is well done, under funded, and a statement that cannot be answered with anything but a prayer. And they have art.<br /><br />First, as you climbed the stairway to the second level, they have an entire gallery of children's' art, commenting on barbed wire. There's kids playing in barbed wire; playing soccer in barbed wire; chickens and barbed wire; flowers, barbed wire; symbolistic renditions of a Germany tied up with barbed wire. All out of the mouths of babes…<br /><br />Then, those rascals, the Germans have an entire floor dedicated to Picasso's mega, uber statement about war and fascism, Guernica. I remember vividly the first time I saw the real one, the huge mural named for Picasso's hometown in Spain, and ached and ached for Coeur d'Alene, my own sacred Guernica, my hometown. And the Germans chose to discuss it here, as their feelings about the war and the wall, tumbled out of them and, judging from my walk earlier today, continue to dribble out of them now. How do you get over this in one generation? How do you get over a war in one generation? When I was growing up the 1960s, my father talked vividly about the Fire of 1910 that ravaged North Idaho and he wasn't even alive at that time. But he grew up hearing about it and the legend entered his heart. And so it is with these people, my Germans, the terror and heartbreak of the Wall and the war live in them still and even though they have and have always had Siemens, Schering, Agfa and AEG, and now have BMW, Daimler and the Vatican, they have to figure out life without the wall and who and what they are as a country and it simply is not that easy. The terror and pain were acute and in my opinion, still exist quietly in plenty of neighborhoods here today. My heart is with them. Germany and the Germans went through so much in the twentieth century.<br /><br />And they make me laugh. I have laughed long and hard today. They have the funniest, most cunning, most clever souvenirs of any country I have ever been in. And they make me concerned: out of 10 people smoking here, 9.3 of them are women. You'll see a mother and daughter smoking, while dad stands by with his hands in his pockets. Good luck on those ovaries, girls. For a country that practically had the World Cup sewed up, there is a remarkable lack of futbol frenzy; they can't even tell me the name of that Turkish kid, 19 years old he is, that scored the most goals in the Cup this year that plays for the German National Team. We got a lotta Turks here, they say, with a polite smile. And everything you hear about the hot wine? completely true. It is phenomenal. As is the sauerkraut, which is creamy, and the roasted nuts. Tomorrow I'm going in for chocolate.<br /><br />So my discovery continues; I am proud to be an American but I'm proud too, that before we were American, we were German. We know how to work hard, how to stay faithful and wait for things to change and how to laugh. I don't know if I was filling my own order personally if I could ask for a better combination.<br /><br /><br />JBelle<br />On Location<br />Berlin, GermanyJBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-16373014783300474562010-12-11T14:01:00.000-08:002010-12-11T14:02:24.512-08:00So I'm in the Motherland. My great great grandmother lived here and had 5 boys; didn't want them going off to fight the Czar so she made her husband emigrate to America. Nebraska. Kept all five of her boys alive to live long and happy lives. She was one tough looking girl, too. Like most of the German women I've seen this weekend. And the men! DO NOT presume that ladies would exit an elevator first; even if they were standing by the door. If you're a lady on an elevator, you stand back and let the men in the back come forward and exit proudly. There exists, still today, a strong and valued reason why my great great grandmother knew exactly what she was talking about.<br /><br />I'm staying in Mitte, in Berlin, which in the 1970s the world knew as East Berlin. Now it's this poshy neighborhood, confirming the worst fears of someone I knew once, who said that Berlin is becoming gentrified beyond a feeble recognition of itself, just like Soho in New York did. I am so glad I came. There exists, in every neighborhood in this town, a statement as to the new, old Berlin. Reunification, that is. But somehow, each arch, building, monument, sculpture and signatory construction falls short of making the definitive comment on what it was like to have the east part of town suddenly taken from the community and, in a stunning reversal, not only taken but used as a prisoner of war in an ongoing battle that may have only been settled in the late 1980s. I cannot think of any American town that would cope well with that. <br /><br /><br />Part of the way Berlin haunts you is the there is not much left of its palpable history. Oh sure, there's the bridal path from the winter palace to the summer palace, over there in Charlottenburg. Heck, there's even the Charlottenburg Castle. But in the place of the glorious, phenomenal, centuries -old- buildings and neighborhoods in London, Milan, Paris and Istanbul, stand post war modern stark installations where people work, play, eat, and buy what they want and need in this life. Everything here was bombed; everything was destroyed. So the Germans rebuilt, re-imagined, entire neighborhoods and sections of this town. Fold in the new reincarnation of the old Berlin and you have, solidly, a work in progress whose master plan still resides in the heads and hearts the electorate. In other words, nobody really knows for sure. They're still thinking it through. There is no flow and glide to this city; even the demarcation, the wall put up by the Russians, follows incredibly irregular lines and grids through neighborhoods, rivers, woods, parks, industrial areas, retail and service neighborhoods. You just don't know. You just can't get a feel.<br /><br />Another thing that's sad and haunting for me is the art. There is very little classical art and architecture in the public domain left here in Berlin; and the art that does remain is stodgy; solidly unimaginative and stubbornly unyielding. The best art here is the graffiti, except for the art that the artists of the world came and made on the remaining section of the Wall; it's section by section; spectacular; exciting; none of it German. How do you have a town without its own art, now and then?<br /><br />But Berlin remains. Stubborn, solid, stodgy. Angela Merkel and the foreign minister came out hard yesterday in defense of the euro. Told the EU that they have to man up and protect the currency; the idea of EU bonds will only prolong the drama. The contemporary Germans are people who have lived through sacrifice and heartbreak;and they know how they got there. They do not intend to go there again. I'm reminded of what Henry VIII did to his people; taxed them to death to pay for any one of a number of pissing matches with his countrymen, his allies and his enemies. I'm no Doris Kearns Goodwin but it seems to me that Germany has had it with being right, and righteous, too. Elizabeth the I, Henry's daughter, reigned over one of the most prosperous eras in the entire history of England and surely, post-war Germany mirrors that success and prosperity these days. The trains stations are marvels; the airports, while quite institutional, are models of efficiency. Somebody, somehow, had to pay for all these new buildings, even if they are nothing special but instead, seriously functional. All of the menial jobs are held by immigrants--people with brown skins and dark eyes. That tells me there's enough going on here for people to leave their homes and families because it's a better life here. <br /><br />So from this seat in the stadium, it looks like Germany has regained everything it lost in a century of wars and political miscalculations. But I'd love to see their national consciousness sprout around their capital city; I'd love to see their hope, not just their resolution, and I'd love to see their heart, not just their ambition. More than a beer glass; more than exceptional engineering, Germany's got to be something more, something else. I can't wait to find it.<br /><br /><br />JBelle<br />On Assignment<br />East Berlin, GermanyJBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-82685295492083371692010-12-05T10:09:00.000-08:002010-12-05T10:25:53.063-08:00So it's Advent again. The feast day of St. Nicholas is tomorrow, that originator of the secret gift. That rascal. One thing that came up in our family during the latest recession is another discussion of meaningful gifts; last year we decided to make <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">playlists</span> of our favorite music for each other; we burned them and then wrapped them up for each other. We spent all of Christmas Day listening to each other's music and laughing at the similarities and the contrasts. It was just lovely. <div><br /></div><div>And so <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">playlists</span> became a new tradition with a family that loves and craves its traditions. God help me if I change the menu on the eves and the days of our celebration to a substantial deviation or if I forget to lay ribbon-wrapped tissue paper packages of pajamas and books for these adult children that now have to make the journey of the Magi to be at home for Christmas under the Christmas tree; a tradition that so far, they trust to my judgment. And I do like to change the Christmas tree up and have it be what I'm thinking and feeling about that year. Does anything ever stay the same? </div><div><br /></div><div>So our <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">playlist</span> production is in high swing; it's super secret. I think you can get a clearer insight into how Google plans to smoke Microsoft next than to sneak a peek at the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">playlists</span> being written. I'm feeling a certain humiliation and sheepishness because my <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">playlist</span> is a phat and bulky 24-songs long. I just can't choose any closer! They are so gonna dine out on me...</div><div><br /></div><div>I had a bit of an epiphany this week when I checked back into last year's <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">playlists</span> and found that some of my selections this year were actually on my children's <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">playlists</span> last year. Clearly, they are informing my choices. And so the role reversal that we seem to be so deeply entrenched in these days continues. It's a wonderful time of year and a wonderful time of life. If you let it be...</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">JBelle</span></div><div><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">Bellemaison</span></div><div>The 'Kan <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">EWA</span></div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-16009033046569619682010-11-13T19:18:00.000-08:002010-12-05T10:44:54.576-08:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn6t8Z3JV_EFE-1iQc2Fxdfjevs4HL-GJxD7P1ovji4XW3c5P7fxHS371lRYhv4oEXEWC2Uj5eys-LsXHTt1SaNKqEH5qCC7d-PiEzwAPmhczjscpq7C9CfzHYK4sKnHnQ6mXS/s1600/_SCH5875.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn6t8Z3JV_EFE-1iQc2Fxdfjevs4HL-GJxD7P1ovji4XW3c5P7fxHS371lRYhv4oEXEWC2Uj5eys-LsXHTt1SaNKqEH5qCC7d-PiEzwAPmhczjscpq7C9CfzHYK4sKnHnQ6mXS/s400/_SCH5875.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5547271050793620898" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqRzvmivUZ5NLUavH6Gz39JOfzXgbi478HP4-sZSeSVBkYZz3jEb_GLghsqTpIG2f91ZWmUzoo9izSeG42Dg96sp6NhpLa4Rj43ZoSEsapGB1zhOpQFgLqX5CZ9UvXRTI3VNNj/s400/_SCH7433.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539572896554951938" /></div><div>11.02.2010</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div>I'm waiting for the car to pick me up to go to Mexico City and it all comes back to me in brief glimpses and flashes. What I remember most is the kindness and generosity of the people and the smile in their eyes. The people here embrace any who come in celebration and respect for the dead and will feed you, kiss you and fill you with their faith and love. Quite a testimony to an enlightened and value-driven society.<div><br /></div><div>Our guide Pablo tells me that he expects certainly that in fifty years the celebrations will still be alive; the children trailed their grandmothers in and out of the graveyards and reverently and obediently fulfilled their parts in the family and community liturgies in play, hauling marigolds and candles and fruit and festooning the graves with loving care. And then fiestaed and celebrated with each other with delight and to the delight of all bystanders. Pablo remarked that the thing that will certainly be different<img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0jEXGMFEtuc63wHWsT4MjNXF_NTsG4EcQeIwULNA-1SeMcKP914URFZJ8qRbU2gEz2iAbcWDIZGd5_qV4PhSlY1OU8PbwkDvgwCUwodH4PtBBjrtlzpge0syXENnD-sLxRF_I/s400/_SCH7209.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539571486683138210" />going forward is how the people celebrating the La Dias de los Muertos will look. The long braids streaked in silver and gray and wrapped and woven in brightly colored ribbons will vanish, along with the nubby long lengths of fabric that sheath both the men and the women from the cold. Replaced by manufactured shirts and blouses with buttonholes and collars and LA Rams windbreakers with pockets holding cellphones, the faithful will remain and replenish but will forever look different. I feel so humbled to have been able to see this on this year and I will remember it always. Pablo also told me the graveyard celebrations observed deep in the hills outside Oaxaca that we witnessed are not done in Oaxaca because Oaxaca was Spanish-occupied. The first thing the Spanish did was abolish native celebrations such as Las Dias de Los Muertos as they were inconsistent with the catechism of the Catholic Church. These indigenous celebrations exist in communities today because the Spanish never made it up to the hill country to occupy the villages; because as they say, there was no (gold) up those tunnels. Such serendipity…<div><br /><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjxVYQyPeXfnD7IhDyGcv25UXPFczjCcU4QX_w_Q3FdrZcXMQlh6VshdlyCfOyAot9sEm59bu2Pd-lj484bIUl_83zxa2m1hxh-Ra8Bv6SVR3KcNENhoeuFhiN5-whKnKabvd95/s400/_SCH7887.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539566175798115490" />Yesterday we went to the livestock market outside of town. Drove up to hundreds of sheep, goats, pigs,mules, donkeys, horses, steers and bulls being led to market. We milled about with everyone buying and selling and the aroma of manure, mud and lunch bubbling away in the huge pots being tended by the women with the long braids filled the air. Unmistakably extraordinary and unmistakably <i>divina</i>. Walked up and down streets of art galleries last evening and mingled in the incredibly rich, incredibly dynamic local arts community and saw everything that we've been seeing all week reproduced in hip and cutting edge mediums. The art here is magnificent. Again: extraordinary. divina. And it's ALL art.<br /><br />And so I pack it up to take with me as I head home. I have many commitments and responsibilities waiting for me and I'll get right back to work immediately; but I want so badly to keep this past week for always. Santo Domingo. Monte Alban. Mitla. St. Augustin. The marigolds, mescal. The chocolate! The candle-<img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh6KgunOUloHOEALfUuBojTM_XVxkc1fudRxAVRRRLWeCzL1AcwnCwg67v7ZeYW2osZWqE-Slxvq1qKnCRq1DSwoH5NAYrSkE1v6lgKdp_0ETKuywqaceJ3UF808LVPIJ68UhCc/s400/_SCH4989.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539564734947076370" />light, the prayers, the eyes that follow you as you walk. I simply don't know if my heart is big enough to hold the exquisite texture and quality of it all. Because now I have gone among <i>las gallendas di corazon</i> and I am small; I am so very small…<img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_KmtebNHjL-HtuPogCE57BP6pVg3GZBmYjFv0bjXm51MG7oSlQkLztynnhi3o7IwB0EhrGNnQf84qyEkLsKXNAF9EYZNWQqj6kVAAfzfh7Vbwxwitv_v_4vkL9MRVjXvJiuCH/s400/_SCH5170.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539563825330529026" /><br /><br />JBelle<br />On Assignment<br />Oaxaca City, Oaxaca MEXICO</div></div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-67495466355023060052010-11-13T19:14:00.000-08:002010-11-14T19:18:28.290-08:00November 1, 2010<br />Day of The Dead<br />This morning I got up at 3 am to ride into the hills outside Oaxaca to witness the celebration that is the Day of theDead. You can't really describe this phenomenon--you can only accurately call it a phenomenon--because it is so pure, so intimate, so deeply spiritual it is without bounds and simply not capable of being quantified nor qualified.<br /><br />We bounced around and over very bumpy,muddy, rutted roads, crossed a bridge and kept going. We bounced and jostled around some more in the sharp black air and some more then, and suddenly, came to a stop. Although we had mounted a fairly arduous journey with strategic preparation to be at the graveyard of this Zapotecan community for sunrise, we arrived at our destination with practically no preamble or introduction. Certainly no ramp up as we stepped in the black air and beheld a sea, a literal sea, of shining,laughing faces lit by a million candles and cuddled by clouds upon clouds upon clouds of orange marigolds and pink cocks comb. It was purely subjective as to whether we still were in this world or the next.<br /><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMH6r78vkVyLwQ9N3PxI8Jhcd-15tOovCqqmu0cSAmbzngVphSiQU_cyHYWHflQ9CUVgSZRbl0-7rw0yGe7GeBGb2DU7rx14aM2W-_HHFg1O66caTRddeEwLhmNphPoK3QKryd/s320/_SCH5720.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539462267233677634" />The band played joyous, rollicking music and people tended their dearly departed spirits with pure adoration and utter conviction in the pitch black of night . They sat and visited with each other; prayed; sang; danced; drank the mescal; laughed an<img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEip0s4hyhsJvP-rcnjeG2x5Qkzcx21q4VMVKRGe1sJCRa8Al6VehX_VqW8ISYVUm3uymdeoI2nrpwKHorXIlB0oEMZ9alx_x1W9YHruwj_k6lZK4C6tkIwTsHoq76KzPiGyPRpt/s320/_SCH5694.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539461958195119874" />d waved at the white-skinned light-eyed visitors with expensive cameras sporting wide, fat lenses. Little children ran, played, chased and shouted to each other amid and amongthe dead of the night just before the sun came back; teenagers flirted slyly with each other under t<img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi44rlSGdPx4RydiKIDo7KojZTtM8GCBtgp74J_pF-27VQOBw5V3k7pIjPrXkeE5OMg3NFaGyZoZSGHfeuzv0vXwiKNGH9LeaW36zMTqIhcaU48n0vmQSzvspoxNaEOQfGPyS-p/s320/_SCH5814.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539462136547293298" />he watchful eyes of their grandmothers and their fathers and mothers chatted and laughed with passersby and visitors. It occurred to me again and again that the American Christian community that bemoans, grieves and wails death is quite possibly among the most uncivilized and primitive societies of all time.<div><br /><div>Last evening we went over to Xoxocatlan to be with that community as they hauled in wheelbarrows full of supplies and lovingly tended the graves,</div><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 266px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVtHrRc_rXj_Zc_zCSM5SDHRVfKTQ1vBoEyg_mvtGBCGugLEovA_BD5yfMlXyLksxcNarWrzeNknCw0F97CbN27Oy4UL-mlRQLvRc13L8jXQ-QrIypRI2zqlUIffS3Qyv6YLWH/s400/_SCH5960.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539460502848371922" /><div>lighting candles, arranging flowers and making full preparations to venerate, celebrate and visit with their deceased. It was magic, but only the magic that comes with pure liturgy, pure devotion and bedrock faith. As the sun went down and the candles came up, I experienced an illumination that I doubt I'll</div><div>experience again. And then, this morning, again with practically no warning, the sun came up over the graveyard at Atzompa and suddenly it was all over. Band stopped playing and packed their equipment in vans, grandmothers trailing grandsons bearing chairs trudged out the gates for home and the marigolds were deadheaded and shredded on the graves. </div><div><br /></div><div>The Night Magic is gone and the sun beats down in the courtyard now, flooding it with brilliant white light. But I have the memory of these people and their hearts locked securely</div><div>away in my own heart, for those dark days and dark nights when my own dearly beloved are so, so, so very far away…<br /><br /></div><div><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 133px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7aQ9LHWBhzPq-yDRI47khd-2IcuvgSeyLmI1gGJggIgjVtoY1x1SQcN4o8K7OGLXdsEpWGTU5fsZsTbEDdjcprC2NKjk7-mWvblbGBA3XvaR1YA4d_87wi10ISEdHd2URkpom/s200/_SCH6056.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539460978830550962" />JBelle<br />On Assignment<br />Oaxaca City, Oaxaca MEXICO</div></div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-68998766060842268972010-11-13T18:53:00.000-08:002010-11-14T19:14:23.051-08:00October 31, 2010 Dias de los Muertos<br /><br />The people gather for a 5 day weekend in celebration of their family and friends that have gone to the next world. They serve you a steaming hot bowl of<img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-fQ_hl822KVsjP-TOh5WxtFBIkg2zVmA4WsIBz0wtSLcObkOeY0d-gMWVffy4dLveWQWo-JllFMMGZwLgTLq47sRzTcgNEReeZGEoW1jeMm87tBI_Sn7MnDtmAesxHWou1Izl/s400/_SCH4133.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539456794426675090" /> thick, foamy chocolate that is by far, the best chocolate I have ever tasted. They bake faces of women into the loaves of bread. They each will probably have a shrine at home that will include marigolds, cocks comb, loquats, bananas, papaya, peanuts, oranges and limes; mescal; coca cola; candles and the little smiling skeletons, katrinas, dolls dressed up to resemble the deceased's life on this earth. Everyone smiles and is joyful; it is a time of great festival in honor of this life and the next and of being together.<br /><br />Yesterday in Santo Domingo, homebase for chastity, poverty and obedience, I saw a man stop and fold his hands in prayer at the gigantic altar of Guadalupe. Then he did the most extraordinary thing: he produced a vivid pink rose, unique among the dozens of red roses that abound here in Oaxaca, and proceeded to bath his face and neck with this pink rose. Then he held the rose over the altar and crushed the rose with one hand, separating the petals from their stem, letting the fragrant pink tears fall in offering to our Lady at her shrine in the most beautiful baroque church in all of Mexico. Pure unapologetic adoration.<div><br />Knelt in the very front row of Santo Domingo last evening about 5, when all of a sudden the lights came on, men in silk suits came down the aisle, followed very shortly by bridesmaids. I waited for someone to ask me to leave or sit in the back o f the church, but no one did. So I had front row seats at dusk for the wedding of a petite, beautiful Zapotec princess and her spectacularly handsome new husband. Apparently, it didn't seem inappropriate to anyone but me that I became gathered up with these people on this very special day in their lives and I was practically overcome with honor, delight and fascination. I was more than a bit troubled by the music that played as she walked to the altar to stand with her parents and her best girlfriends and sisters before the priest to give her wedding vows: Lohengrin! Here Comes The Bride! Her dress and those of the wedding party could have been worn by any bride in any Catholic church in the US: her colors were shades of magenta, violet pink and rose and her mother wore rust-colored garnet. With their burnished brown faces and black eyes and hair, you can imagine what a sight they were with the extraordinary main alter of Santo Domingo as background.<div><br />Later, I waited in the square outside the church for their triumphant recessional to their new life as man and wife; a dozen and a half dancers of the Oaxaca folkloric troop waited w<img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgwrcBRYDh0UsHKwonG42U3lWkc1eovziQNtH3Da6hr0rvP2jFkcjKMJ3MA3-MsFDZH4dfYy7vw-Id5bpcxvIC7cdJrrR3cqn9GjSWA1aYxOBFRVDvUTDadepWGsQXhbE-RaqXW/s400/Schmitz_Day3_0005.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539452190849379698" />ith me, brilliant in their lime, o<img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 266px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDl0Pl8v68gcF_1OPqUHgOvxYL5hETb6Y7gkvcWQjuAw4mTLmdhMuvquMpFKgQBWkR0UX0UScwWL8IVXeEkaFoOIRibTWUfzB1DV_P4V9okJ4VYDhb1EOSFId_WBm5fifpzjcu/s400/Schmitz_Day3_0007.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539453355032783250" />range, purple, red, blue, pink, and yellow skirts. Their hair was pulled back and long black yarn braids, woven with brightly-hued ribbons hung down their back. They had big baskets of flowers that they, omigod, hoisted onto their heads and then, began to twirl and dance in a mad tornado, their nimble feet nipping in and out and back again into the lace hems of their petticoats. The bride and groom stood in the gigantic doorway of the church, delightfully reviewing this spectacle in pure rapture. And when it could not be any more graphic, any more sensual, any more surreal, any more unbelievable, everything changed. In a big way. From out of nowhere appeared gigantic, enormous bride and groom caricatures who began to dance and veer awkwardly among the dancers. The crowd roared their approval and delight and at the end of another frenetic whirlwind of smiles, braids, skirts, flowers and color, color, color, called raucously for <i>besos! besos! besos!</i> The two nuptial giants obliged and clumsily tilted toward each in devilish pecks. It was sheer magic.<br /><br />The crowed dispersed then and walked among the beautifully adorned skulls on display, much like the people do for the floats of the Rose Parade in Pasadena. They'll be a parade tonight, with these gorgeous skulls being danced up and down the streets of Oaxaca on the shoulders of the jubilant Mexicans, who do not fear death and are not afraid of the dead, or even of the living. Not even the white-skinned living!<br /><br />I realize only this morning that it's is quite possible that it is I who has gone to the next world…<br /><br /><br />JBelle<br />On Assignment<br />Oaxaca City, Oaxaca MEXICO</div></div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-11292250408491164112010-11-12T19:02:00.000-08:002010-11-14T21:56:38.985-08:00October 30, 2010<br />The marigolds came out today. They are holy flowers here in Mexico and the doorways, shrines, altars and all things celebration sprouted marigolds today in heaps and armfuls as the w<img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjScLU1KelOIc9aCoGWzl6nBNy7NyHtR8KOBmS24TwvjPWW5udlodzStTDUVGK5UP-2O6IQXuHD1KExvtwT7XInVtbjKNRXld_Hm9e-FmxkPqVXbH3dL1RPbiyGu1GyiwNI_doM/s400/Schmitz_Day1_0850.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539449428558029634" />orld's foremost Dias de los Muertos observance kicked off. It is such a time of joy and celebration for the people here in Oaxaca and my personal joy and sense of celebration has been rekindled just being among them. Tonight after dark I walked the streets as a bride risen from the grave, a katrina. The Mexicans loved it, blowing besos and bringing their children around. The men laughed and laughed and laughed; the women stopped to talk, telling me my mask, applied by me with MAC eyeshadow by the light of a hotel room bathroom, was well done. It was a bit awkward for us all when it came out I was American. No one knew! I waved good night saying Este noche es Mexicano….<br /><br />Tomorrow night we go to the graveyard to be with the families as the children come back to visit. They come first you know, because they are little and nimble and can run fast to escape the confines of the next world much better than the adults, who will come on Monday night.<br /><br />Everyone is so excited to see each other again…<br /><br /><br />JBelle<br />On Assignment<br />Oaxaca City, Oaxaca MEXICOJBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-51813491083610621482010-11-11T19:09:00.000-08:002010-11-14T19:07:03.149-08:00<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">10.28.2010 </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I left in the dark, scurrying down </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:small;">the streets of Oaxaca with the other faithful in search of peace and contemplation at sunrise. I passed the doorways of the banks with la revolucion graffiti tagging their broad lintels; young adults gathered in the middle of the streets around scaffolding and tables stacked up for some purpose related to the upcoming Holy Days I suppose; I wondered, as usual, as they eyed me warily, about the wisdom of setting out for a destination whose location nor path was certain. Many times I have chided myself in the darkness of mornings ju</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:small;">st like this one; but the soft, gauzy air of early morning seduces me and whispers in my ear, so sweetly, what's the worsssst that can happen? So I push on. But then, right at the very end of block 5, it all unfolds and snaps open right at my toes, exploding without warning nor omen, and opens up as high as my neck can stretch with such a jerk, that I involuntarily gasp. Santo Doming</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:small;">o. Just like the desk clerk said. I can hear the priest intoning the </span></div><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 202px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7s6ixE0I2tprzjCdVpJyBt6zdagvLHUxicdIojvfoBoAveaWEvuMyfJ59tXky0MottTAHKAxr1ZYbEdM68Z8uur5byY7XhYC3GdhNYkGijQlJ5GlP13_wK5bOvTc_zBRplm8T/s320/Schmitz_Day1_0536.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539523101384489794" /><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:24.1667px;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">opening prayers and I shake my head as I run up the steps: </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">once again, about as far away from home</span></span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:small;">as you can get, I am saved by the loving arms of the Holy Roman Church. I pick up my pace and enter, bowing my head and folding my hands, so everyone will know this</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:small;">white-skinned green-eyed </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:small;">gringo</span></div><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOCXSoIdg7Q3dxDGGZpQXb88bsfoW81TS7hpegWMupHf5WOHxJEV48JddwpIgREFmoxYzCIuf3EvmOTMLMd9Ob4V28_yWcm0z94CtbuTRQTCcDr5asT4oNdtENXOSUKw34VfgM/s320/Schmitz_Day1_0544.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539554367142334322" /><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:small;">comes in peace. Actually looking for redemption. I march</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">right down front, because I can, and slip into an open spot, sinking to my knees and beginning, Hail Mary, my Dear Friend, I'm here again.SaveMe.</span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Help Me. She comes to me t</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">hen,</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">with rest and understanding and</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 202px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgybj9p-HtVDz129-PehWEMM1Z_FIl_mqCtCgUVJEIFjkLTd3eZ6kzSk6kiKJQUcDGkbLABCZyORcQdj5RtVCctj1nopTPb-Rsc_bpz8c-5Cs85SBqy07DsvotTJwPL_rRlQMUt/s320/Schmitz_Day1_0520.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539522525406352290" /><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:small;">the readings begin. Then, the</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">priest, white and Irish, speaks the words of the New Testament.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:small;">I had no idea the Irish could speak spot-on Spanish. I listen to it all, the cadence cueing me when my vocabulary fails and soon the kiss of peace fills the</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJ1GUtFBMNcGC-fFcWtoYijL15HoataQt2ya9w4qD7p0xEsAE6TVYYJxXzCcEKSO4wU-GNW8jqN5DkbZ6vP5tm6_NOfD1gaEJqg2pvaYaWKtqdGC3FhxDZPsYn3KKGY9F9enGL/s320/Schmitz_Day1_0547.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539515675723928722" /><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">air. The people around me are not afraid of me nor resentful</span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">that I share their special moment in the day. The deacon offers me the Body of Christ, as it's done all over the world, and once again, I am calmed and humbled to know that I am loved</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">and that I belong. I am grateful. But sad and puzzled at the gorgeous art of </span></div><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj62Y_sHtz2r4-wlQcPb37w3PcYYB_riWjHxkPIi_TaarLjet5cSAP2ovrbx_ahhNtSA1SOdWMkrDKX3J6T3gjrAxsQ8wCvIBHjJhi9BwnH4ZL479uxjQj828W_AT7F4wgiDpy-/s320/Schmitz_Day1_0335.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5539515348874424754" /><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">magnificent church: all white fathers. Only </span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">one native-skinned saint among the bunch, off in a corner. If Rome expected me to raise my black-eyed children in a house where we looked to the Great White Fathers for all things, I'm afraid there'd be more than just </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">a pequeno la revolucion </span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">in my soul.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Like the Italians know everything. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">JBelle</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">On Assignment</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Oaxaca City, Oaxaca MEXICO</span></div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-18773114457306004512010-10-19T19:41:00.000-07:002010-10-19T23:21:42.346-07:00<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">The Indian Parrot</span><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">There was a merchant setting out for India. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">He asked each male and female servant</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">what they wanted to be brought as a gift.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Each told him a different exotic object:</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">A piece of silk, a brass figurine,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">a pearl necklace.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Then he asked his beautiful caged parrot,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">the one with such a lovely voice,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">and she said,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> "When you see the Indian parrots,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">describe my cage. Say that I need guidance</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">here in my separation from them. Ask how</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">our friendship can continue with me so confined</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">and them flying about freely in the meadow mist. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Tell them that I remember well our mornings</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">moving together from tree to tree.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">They them to drink one cup of ecstatic wine</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">in honor of me here in the dregs of my life.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Tell them that the sound of their quarreling</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">high in the trees would be sweeter</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">to hear than any music. "</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">This parrot is in the spirit-bird of all of us,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">that part that wants to return to freedom,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">and is the freedom. What she wants</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">from India is </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">herself!</span></i></div><div><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></i></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">So this parrot gave her message to the merchant,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">and when he reached India, he saw a field</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">full of parrots. He stopped</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">and called out what she had told him.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">One of the nearest parrots shivered</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">and stiffened and fell down dead.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">The merchant said, "This one is surely kin</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">to my parrot. I shouldn't have spoken."</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">He finished his trading and returned home</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">with the presents for his workers.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">When he got to the parrot, she demanded her gift.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">"What happened when you told my story</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">to the Indian parrots?"</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">"I'm afraid to say."</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> "Master, you must!"</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">"When I spoke your complaint to the field</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">of chattering parrots, it broke</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">one of their hearts.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">She must have been a close companion,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">or a relative, for when she heard about you</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">she grew quiet and trembled, and died."</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">As the caged parrot heard this, she herself</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">quivered and sank to the cage floor.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">This merchant was a good man.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">He grieved deeply for his parrot, murmuring</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">distracted phrases, self-contradictory--</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">cold, then loving--clear, then</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">murky with symbolism.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">A drowning man reaches for anything!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">The Friend loves this flailing about</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">better than any lying still.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">The One who lives inside existence</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">stays constantly in motion,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">and whatever you do, that king</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">watches through the window.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">When the merchant threw the "dead" parrot</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">out of the cage, it spread its wings</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">and glided to a nearby tree!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">The merchant suddenly understood the mystery.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">"Sweet singer, what was in the message</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">that taught you this trick?"</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">"She told me that is was the charm</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">of my voice that kept me caged.</span></div><div><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Give it up, and be released!"</span></i></div><div><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></i></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">The parrot told the merchant one or two more</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">spiritual truths. Then a tender goodbye.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">"God protect you," said the merchant</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">"as you go on your new way.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I hope to follow you!"</span></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;">~ </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;">Rumi</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;"> I 1814-1833, 1845-1848</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;">Give up your charm to keep yourself in motion and your spirit-bird winging its way to freedom. Drink the ecstatic wine. Don't be self-contradictory. I love you tonight and always.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;">JBelle</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;">Bellemaison</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;">The 'Kan EWA</span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-9718409403922707192010-10-15T08:07:00.000-07:002010-10-15T08:15:49.613-07:00We're well into the season here at Bellemaison and all kinds of change fill the air. I'm hopeful, have to be, yet I've come through enough of these toss arounds to know that things are never, ever the same even after you land upright and can walk away. Guess that's the point, right? <div><br /></div><div>I continue to be grateful, humble with gratefulness, and will tell you one more time that there is no one who is luckier than me. There are things that elude me, that I do not have and now it's obvious, never will have. But there are some things I do have things I will never be without, and in that, I am rich, rich, rich.</div><div><br /></div><div>JBelle</div><div>Bellemaison</div><div>The 'Kan EWA</div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-74911611743656799112010-10-10T10:31:00.000-07:002010-10-15T07:52:30.366-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjT_HpEZDCpnx6eSCKhpjObp47NBKB1OB8DvI6MGuabLD_FudD3X89R2nUIqTvaB08zFL9-KQNB3tkUn8sPC7kc0yoqmhN1cj-xpgHIfJpjA6qBCeKFcclzEtEoWY9zknaQjgZE/s1600/2010+09+19_4909.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjT_HpEZDCpnx6eSCKhpjObp47NBKB1OB8DvI6MGuabLD_FudD3X89R2nUIqTvaB08zFL9-KQNB3tkUn8sPC7kc0yoqmhN1cj-xpgHIfJpjA6qBCeKFcclzEtEoWY9zknaQjgZE/s400/2010+09+19_4909.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5528285781330529650" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-large;"><b>One-Handed Basket Weaving</b></span><div><br /></div><div>There was a dervish who lived alone in the mountains,</div><div>who made a vow never to pick fruit from the trees,</div><div>or to shake them down,</div><div>or to ask anyone to pick fruit for him.</div><div><br /></div><div>"Only what the wind makes fall."</div><div>This was his way</div><div>of giving in to God's will.</div><div><br /></div><div>There is a traditional saying from the Prophet</div><div>that a human being is like a feather in the desert</div><div>being blown about wherever the wind takes it.</div><div><br /></div><div>So for a while in the joy of this surrender</div><div>he woke each dawn with a new direction to follow.</div><div><br /></div><div>But then came five days with no wind,</div><div>and no pears fell.</div><div><br /></div><div>He patiently restrained himself,</div><div>until a breeze blew just strong enough</div><div>to lower a bough full of ripe pears</div><div>close to his hand, but not strong enough</div><div>to detach the pears.</div><div><br /></div><div>He reached out and picked one.</div><div><br /></div><div>Nearby, a band of thieves were dividing</div><div>what they had stolen.</div><div><br /></div><div>The authorities surprised them and immediately</div><div>began the punishments: the severing</div><div>of right hands and left feet.</div><div><br /></div><div>The hermit was seized by mistake</div><div>and his hand cut off.</div><div>but before his foot could be severed also,</div><div>he was recognized.</div><div><br /></div><div>The prefect came. "Forgive these men.</div><div>They did not know. Forgive us all!"</div><div><br /></div><div>The sheikh said, "This is not your fault.</div><div>I broke my vow, and the Beloved</div><div>has punished me."</div><div><br /></div><div>He became known as Sheikh Aqta,</div><div>which means, "The teacher</div><div>whose hand has been cut off."</div><div><br /></div><div>One day a visitor entered his hut without knocking</div><div>and saw him weaving palm leaf baskets.</div><div>It takes two hands to weave!</div><div><br /></div><div>"Why have you entered without warning!"</div><div><br /></div><div>"Out of love for you"</div><div><br /></div><div>"Then keep this secret which you see</div><div>has been given to me."</div><div><br /></div><div>But others began to know about this,</div><div>and many came to the hut to watch.</div><div><br /></div><div>The hand that helped</div><div>when he was weaving palm leaves</div><div>came because he no longer had any fear</div><div>of dismemberment or death.</div><div><br /></div><div>When those anxious, self-protecting</div><div>imaginations leave, the real,</div><div>cooperative work begins.</div><div><br /></div><div>(<i>Mathmawi</i> <i>III, 1634-1642, 1672-1690, 1704-1720)</i></div><div><i><br /></i></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I write to you with happiness and anticipation today; that your counterproductive imaginations begin a hiatus that simultaneously launches the most productive period of this part of your life. Be well. I love you. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">JBelle</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Bellemaison</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">The 'Kan EWA</span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:7;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:41px;"><br /></span></span></span></div></div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-76302113255670655832010-09-21T09:01:00.000-07:002010-09-21T10:10:16.429-07:00<strong><span style="font-size:130%;">My Own Private August 2010</span></strong><br /><em>I Believe</em><br /><br />So August came and went and I didn't take the time to think about and articulate what is making <a href="http://jb3ll3.blogspot.com/2009/06/my-own-private-august-august-is-coming.html">My Own Private August</a> these days. And it was a good thing because when the pain completely wraps its dark, bony arms around and about you, talking about it can sometimes seal your futility. As least that's how it feels in here.<br /><br />A friend I once had, who I miss, told me early on that sometimes all you can do is work hard, keep your mouth shut and do your job. And I have had much worse advice many times. So although the tunnel is still cold and clammy, and I have no bearing, no balance, and I can't see four feet in front of me, off up by my eyebrow is a pin prick of light. I bet, I'm going to say yes, that's the proverbial light at the end of the tunnel. For now, though, I can't focus on the light at the end of the tunnel; I have to keep my head down and focus on my feet and my arms, steering myself slowly ahead through the murk, so as not to crash and burn. Again. I hate the taste of mud and blood in my mouth.<br /><br />This August, it's helped me to remember who I am and who I want to be. My Credo. Because I have absolutely no idea who I am these days. I get flashes of that Other Person, smiling and laughing, always on her way to execute some chore or commitment, and I think, hmmm! She sure had a big smile. I don't think about that smile too hard because the tears start again, and damn them, they disable me every time. Short circuit and shut down the system. Rebooting is such a bitch. Blood and mud in the mouth...<br /><br />So the first thing that I want to be, that I Believe, is this: I want to be Generous in all things. I have felt blessed and cursed with the generosity factor because people really do take generosity as a weakness. I have sat across the conference table from people, many, many times, who mistook my generosity for foolishness. But then they had to live with that. But that wasn't and isn't my problem. People who exploit me for my generosity do not operate in the dark. I see them. And what pops out in 3-D is not their greediness, but their struggle. And I regret that, but it's not my problem. The struggle and plight of mankind does not fall within the bounds of my personal credo. Those are problems that people with a much higher pay grade, perhaps, only certified professionals and/or people with top level security clearances, can tackle; I can tackle me and living up to what I believe is important; and that's unconditional generosity. And by the way, there's a second part of generosity; in its highest form, generosity is ladled out in helpings that are never measured. Ignatius: Teach Us to Give And Not Count the Cost. And as irony would have it, irony always does, I'm a person who can count in at least 20 different languages. So it is my challenge, my imperative and my mandate in life, to turn off the counter. Because I want to be generous. And Ignatius says you don't get to have it both ways. It only comes with one option. So I want to be generous. And supportive, encouraging and finally, Loyal. Loyalty excludes treachery; betrayal; separation. And I never want to be apart from that and those whom I love because I took the path of least resistance. I want to be generous, supportive, encouraging and loyal. No matter what. That's who I want to be and that's what I will be; not regretting the past, always remembering the present and walking where my aims point.<br /><br />I believe that everyday, every single day, holds an opportunity to get better. John Stockton said,<br />"If you aren't practicing, someone else is." And while that certainly points to John's competitive spirit, among the best in sport ever, and to his work ethic, to me it points east to the sunrise of each day. Everyday, I want to learn something new. Everyday, I want to find out something additional. Everyday, I want to get better. Everyday. I don't want a day to go by that I didn't fit another piece into the puzzle of my life. So no matter what's going on, everyday holds an opportunity for me to get better, to kick up my game and face the east with a hope and say, What's up? Unafraid, I want to be that person who steps up to find out something new; even if I stumble and crawl through rubble and chaos, which, honestly, was the August of 2010. No matter what, no matter who, no matter <em>when</em>, if you aren't practicing, someone else is. Know that. Go east.<br /><br />Finally, I believe, as Ignatius contended, that we are men and women for others. That means different things in different times in life. The conundrum inherent in Love All Serve All doesn't come in the part that involves you: loving and serving. That's pretty straight forward and unequivocal. Love. Serve. Do it. Just get it done. It's the 'all' part that's humbling and confounding. Because it involves other people; people who might not deserve a damn thing in life, let alone good service and love, let alone continued good service and love from you. And that's why Ignatius cautions me with a long look and a firm voice, "Men and Women for others." Love and Serve <em>all</em>. ALL. Yes, them too. Get going.<br /><br />Soooo I remember now who I am. What I want to be. And amid and among the pain, I will be my best self. Got to. How could I not?<br /><br /><br />JBelle<br />Bellemaison<br />The 'Kan EWAJBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-36327415127394828842010-08-07T14:33:00.000-07:002010-08-07T16:42:24.575-07:00<div align="center"><span style="font-family:times new roman;color:#ff6666;"><strong>Menu</strong></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:courier new;font-size:180%;color:#cc33cc;">Bellemaison</span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:78%;"><span style="color:#339999;">Saturday Evening August 7, 2010<br /><br /></span><br /><br /><br /></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></div><div align="center"></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></div><div align="center"><em><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></em></div><div align="center"><em><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></em></div><div align="center"><em><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></em></div><div align="center"><em><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></em></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em>Amalfis</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em>Lambic Framboise</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em>Kabak Mucveri with Sarmisakli Yogurt Sos</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em>Grilled Feta Cheese with Carrot Chutney<br /><br /></em><br /><br /><br /></span></div><div align="center"></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em></em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em></em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em>Roasted Beets and Yukon Golds</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em>Grilled Walla Walla Onions and JoJo's Sweet Red Peppers</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em>Beet Greens with Kansas City Bacon </em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em>Beefsteak Tomatoes with Black Basil, Oil and Red Wine Vinegar<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div></em></span><div align="center"><em><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></em></div><div align="center"></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em>Grilled Sirloin Steak<br />Parmeson Crust Bread<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></em></span></div><div align="center"><em><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></em></div><div align="center"></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em></em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em>Frozen Greek Yogurt with Greenbluff Wild Clover Honey and Walnuts</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em>Frozen Chocolate Chilis from </em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em>Frozen Cream of Banana from </em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em>French Press Coffee</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;"><em>Turkish Mint Tea</em></span></div><div align="center"><em></em></div><div align="center"><em><strong><span style="font-size:85%;">featuring</span></strong></em></div><div align="center">picked this morning produce from Mostly Sunny Dalton Gardens Idaho</div><div align="center">baked this morning bread from Hayden Artisan Breads</div><div align="center">Egger's Kansas City Bacon</div><div align="center">liquors of Amalfi, Italy</div><div align="center"><em><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></em></div><div align="center"><em><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></em></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:78%;"></span></div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-56685559187833178992010-07-03T09:04:00.001-07:002010-07-03T09:38:48.685-07:00The phone calls and texts have started. People are incredulous and exasperated over this whole German triumph in the World Cup. "JBelle!" they say. "Good Lord! woman!" "How can you throw Argentina over for Germany?" "Argentina! Whom you swore would win and with whom you have matched samba move for samba move all through their undefeated swing through the brackets to the very moment they met Germany?"<br /><br />Well, here's the deal: not even the USA let England score at 2:39. If you're going to play candy ass, Sky Hawk football, even for a moment, let alone in the quarter finals of the World Cup, you'll see JBelle exiting the stadium, leaving her jersey stuffed in the folded up seat. JBelle just doesn't root for losers.<br /><br /><br />"Lord, Girl, that's cold," you say. "Cold! Where's your loyalty? You call it, get a team, are, as they say, <em>caliente</em> in the fervor of your team's advancement and then dump them in a stunning reversal of loyalty over a few silly missed balls, bungled plays? "<br /><br /><br /><br />(Chuckling) You don't know anyone more loyal that JBelle. You never will know anyone more loyal than JBelle. You just won't. But you, probably like many, misunderstand. And as a episodic fan, I completely forgive you and indemnify you from your error. I know you'd like to get it.<br /><br />My loyalty is to the football. Lionel Messi is only interesting to me to the extent that he executes cunningly and flawlessly. I don't frigging care what he did in last week's match. Just don't care! I care about what he could do and might do in next week's match. <em>My</em> loyalty is to the game.<br /><br />So I'm late to the party but I've jumped in the back of the German pick up bumping down the road to the final. My cousin's here, he scored the goal at 2:39, making the point that it's never too early or too late to score; the goalkeeper looks a lot like Son the Younger, especially when he's making a goal kick; turns out there's a Turkish kid playing that has a rocket for a foot; and most of these guys are like me: pretty inexperienced, quite idealistic, but with a work ethic second to none. So I'm in. Turns out my people are my people.<br /><br /><br />JBelle<br />Bellemaison<br />The 'Kan EWAJBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-57304509585003904562010-05-24T12:19:00.000-07:002010-05-24T12:32:14.499-07:00So I find myself in Zimbabwe, far far away from the blooming rhododendrons and the sweet spring nights of home. It’s fall here and the trees turn gold and they tell me that the nights are cold. Gets down to about 50 degrees Fahrenheit after the sun goes down.<br /><br />Africa is a portrait of absolutes. It’s an either/or reality here, an exercise in polarity really, where the people do not smile but the birds sing. It really is haunting beautiful but you are quite aware of the ugliness of 90% unemployment that lays in wait and you wonder constantly if it is you that the ugliness will strike in the next moment.<br /><br />The elephants lumber in and out of the watering hole and the monkeys sit on the fence post and groom their young. The hippos soak in the river at sunset and I envy them their sublime sanctuary; it comes to me that rivers are another one of the constants in my life. I love the river. I am going to find every great one in the world and float it like I did last night; nodding my head at the sames, shaking my head at the differences. The great Zambezi River and the great St. Joe are brothers, too, apparently.<br /><br />It’s perplexing to be in the cradle of civilization—the very first man walked right here two million years ago—and not know exactly what I think. It seems like I should be thinking and feeling something profound. The sky is big, ten thousand times bigger than the Big Sky yet you can clearly see to the end of it; the people have great sorrow in their eyes alongside a genuine delight in their laugh; the bush and the animals don’t scare me but the waterfalls do; I can talk to the warthogs as they furiously attack the green grass of the lawn by the driveway and they actually answer me back with a flick of their beady eyes. I do not know what to think.<br /><br />But I do know this. <em>I know this:</em> I have been here before.<br /><br /><br /><br />I just can’t quite remember it all.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />JBelle<br />On Assignment<br />Victoria Falls, Zimbabwe AFRICAJBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-4266039388477027072010-05-14T08:23:00.000-07:002010-05-14T08:43:34.399-07:00<div align="left"><em><span style="font-size:85%;">So The Chows read P33t’s will. Dogs will do that. They get right back to things. They have no regrets, remember. Sylvie is P33t’s personal representative and she spent Monday afternoon seeing that P33t’s last wishes were recorded and enacted. I don’t think P33tsy would mind if the world knew what he wanted taken care of—P33t was a simple guy who loved his life and his people deeply and he didn’t give two shits who knew it.<br /></span></em><br /><span style="font-family:courier new;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">The Last Will and Testament of a Very Big Dog</span> </strong></span></div><div align="left"><strong><span style="font-family:Courier New;">~with gratitude to the great Eugene O'Neill</span></strong><br /><br />I, P33t, having been the object of some unsolved mystery of poison and darkness, do note my last thoughts here in order that you can all move on in an orderly manner without too much shock and sadness at my early death. Who knew that P33t wouldn’t grow old with everyone else? Red Dorothy will be snickering about my ability to write a will as P33t is not known as a particularly articulate guy but rather a guy of action! Someone who barks! Is ferocious! ;) P33t was also someone who was quite handsome. Sweet. Adorable. Good with the ladies. So they can snicker, one and all, at the thought of P33t laying down his last will and testament but to them I say this: P33t Ssssmitz has got game. Watch and learn. </div><div align="left"></div><div align="left"><br />First, I direct Sylvie Ruth to go to Liberty Park Greenhouses and select the biggest, most beautiful hanging basket she can find. In its ideal state, this basket will be lush with blood red geraniums and assorted delicate flowers that hang down in a pretty cascade. Not that P33t knows exactly about this stuff, just what a good one looks like, but that P33t wants something particularly nice and exactly right for his doctor, Suzanne Coulson, DVM. She called me “Petey” from the first day and tried absolutely everything she knew to save me. She telephoned my grandma every day, even Mother’s Day, to check on P33t and I want her to know I wasn’t too sick not to notice. I remember, Dr. Coulson. My family remembers. Your tender care for us all made things better and worse, because if there was or is any truth to all of this, you knew it. And it had/has to be horrifying. And you delivered the news with the most exquisite of compassion. Yes, P33t would definitely call it exquisite compassion. Flowers for your deck to be enjoyed in the morning sun, because The Chow Nation are outdoor dogs, you know, and we loved to play ball in the morning sun as grandma sat and drank coffee. Such laughter, such fun, such excitement; every morning! Thank you, Dr. Coulson. </div><div align="left"></div><div align="left"><br />Second, Sylvie Ruth should stop at South Perry Pizza just up the road from Liberty Park. There she should send Cleo in to buy gift certificates for pizza and beer for all the folks that work at SouthCare Animal Medical Center. They are a good group up there. Darned good group. P33t did not want to have one thing to do with them, smells much too clean up there, and they have that dumb house cat that I was too feeble and too sick to chase but all in all, they were nice people. Real nice to my grandma which matters to me. And I guess that cat donates blood to sick cats and God*Help*Me sick dogs when they need it. That cat walking around like he owns the place without anyone to call him out is but one of the indignities of being really sick but nevertheless, P33t wants those folks to know they were real nice when he needed them. And he hopes they have a nice evening on him sometime. </div><div align="left"></div><div align="left"><br />I direct my collar to be hung on my condo door as a testament to the fact that I, P33t, was a guy who loved home. Forget about that time I went to town, that was just a misunderstanding because I loved Club Chow and Bellemaison right down to the last tuft of hair on each of my ears. How could you not? The birds and the tulips in spring, the roses and the bees in June, the hot, lazy afternoons of July and August and the bright, clear days of the fall, when the evening finally grew cooler and our fur came back in clumps. Bellemaison is a magical place of life and death, where the good can die young and without warning or reason and where we wait with our old until their very last hour, when it’s finally their time. Bellemaison is the place of every season, every day and without ego and with proper respect, I was a big part of that. I was the one who barked at the skunks and squirrels; roared at the cats stalking the quail; chased the sparrows out of my dinner dish, followed Cliffie’s every move; skipped to bed in my condo under the starry night skies, in wonder at how anything could be more beautiful that the faint and feeble Easter moon; gobbled my nightly bone with relish and grateful appreciation and generally gave the place weight and cred. I want my collar to hang like the cardinals hang their hat in the cathedrals and the great ball players hang their jerseys the outfield wall. Because <em><strong>I</strong></em> was cardinal and <em><strong>I</strong></em> was great. </div><div align="left"></div><div align="left"><br />Stack my dinner dish in the closet because I do not want my grandma to see it in a random moment and be sad. She seems to think she needs to feed the world and that’s fine but P33t’s not here no more for her to feed and she’ll forget that. Let’s not remind her because too many people have left her and she still waits for you, <em>now us,</em> all. You know how she is. Let’s help her be happy and forward looking. Make her throw the ball for you. Let her comb your hair. Lick her hand lotion off. These are the things that will make her view that empty, clean dinner dish with an absent minded intent to find some other new use for it. In fact, I revise my last testament at this very moment and instruct you to place my dinner dish and my matching water dish in strategic places in the flower beds in the gardens of Bellemaison, so the birds can drink deeply and freely, in satisfaction and relief until they are sated. We love dinner time at Bellemaison and feeding each other can and should go on and on and on. Forever. Put my dishes among the roses that grow tall and sweet in Bellemaison and keep them filled with clean water always. </div><div align="left"></div><div align="left"></div><div align="left"><br />For My Grandma: one hug each day for five years because she will need that. She needs hugs only no one but me really seems to understand that. She needs someone she can go to and that was ME. I was quite good at that if I do say so myself. Hug her people. She’ll have a lot of pain now that I’m not here to help her with it. And she’s like me, the fewer the words, the better. Grandma likes action and action plans. Try not to bother her with expressing yourself in a bunch of awkward, cluttered up sentences. Just show her what you’re thinking and keep moving. </div><div align="left"><br /> </div><div align="left"></div><div align="left">For my Uncle Jonny, I bequeath a long walk in Manito Park on a cool and misty early winter morning. Uncle Jonny’s school years were some of the very best here in Bellemaison for he was a guy who was going places and taking care of business, always. We set the garden clock by the roar and explosion of his truck coming and going and were always grateful and happy to have him come out to Club Chow, in his gentle and loving manner. Be well, Uncle Jon. Don’t take any wooden bones or settle for anything less than you are worth. And do not hesitate for a second to bark if you have to. Then DO IT. </div><div align="left"></div><div align="left"><br />One million bones to my Auntie Angela because she is the true million dollar baby who loves and respects everyone particularly me. She taught P33t everything about ball and my game was only good because she coached me on how to win and how to play hard. Even though I was big. Who knew someone like me could run bases? But I did. Auntie Angela got me to do it. I owe her everything and direct Cleo to give her 5 black kisses from me and further direct her to play to win in all her own games. With no argument. Get going.<br /><br /></div><div align="left">A cold six pack and a great afternoon in front of the TV watching a brilliant Mariners win is for Uncle Ben because that’s what he likes most and that was one of my most favorite afternoons-- listening to the game as I napped. And Uncle Ben, get your hair combed out even though it will hurt some. Hell, get it all cut off if you have to. We started getting these damned lion cuts and came to like them, even if we looked ridiculous, because we just swept the dirty, matted knots, stray sticks and dead bugs of winter right into the garbage can. Got to quit dealing with all that pesky Old Business. Besides it was just us who saw us and we all came to appreciate how dumb we looked, but how great we felt. Give it a try? And never stop believing. Especially when we are talkin’ the M’s. And never miss a chance for a warm afternoon with a cold beer doing something you love. </div><div align="left"></div><div align="left"><br />I would like my Auntie Robbie to have a nice evening at the end of a busy, happy day because she loved me without fail; give her some good company, good conversation and a really nice time together for Auntie Robbie is one who cares for the world and wastes her smile on any and all. You may say that a smile is never wasted and you’re probably right but Auntie Robbie’s smile is so dazzling and so real that P33t believes it’s quite possible it could be a national treasure, like that one movie. Yes, Auntie Robbie’s smile belongs in that place back east where they have George Washington’s sword and Sacajawea’s dress and Wright Brothers’ airplane. And I direct The Chow Nation to join in a rousing chorus of “Adestes Fidelis” every August 5, not because Christmas is coming, but because Auntie Robbie is always faithful. To me and everyone. Happy Birthday always to my Beloved Auntie Robbie. </div><div align="left"></div><div align="left"><br />To the wonderful, wonderful children of Hutton School, whose comings and goings frame our day here at Club Chow, I leave you recess twice a day for the rest of your life, no matter where your path leads or your travel takes you, because joy and sport builds muscle in your heart and frees your soul to sing. Promise P33t you’ll give yourself this everyday because I think you could become exceptional if you could remember how much fun we always had at Club Chow in Bellemaison. We listened to you over the fence everyday and your laughter and shouts always brought us a smile and put a skip in our step. Living next to you was one of the very best parts of my life. Always be in your life how you were at recess at Hutton School and your dreams will come true. One by one… </div><div align="left"></div><div align="left"><br />I leave to my Very Best Friend Cliffie a whole flower pot full of balls. Like that song Jay-Z says, “ Just a picture perfect day/ to last a whole lifetime.” That was Cliffie and us every Friday and Saturday. A picture perfect day that lasted a whole lifetime until the next Friday when we hit rewind. P33t loved Cliffie and every single second we spent together in Club Chow. </div><div align="left"></div><div align="left"><br />Finally, and with no afterthought, I leave my grandpa a big paw anytime he wants or needs it. Grandpa wasn’t a guy who liked a bunch of words either but he always knew what I meant when I gave him The Paw. Maybe it was P33t’s imagination, but I think he kinda gave me the paw back, plenty of times. Grandpa will miss me because I was no candy ass, attention greedy dog but a regular guy who was good company. We snored together on Sunday afternoon a lot and Grandpa won’t need anybody to remind him that nobody’s paws were bigger than P33t’s. </div><div align="left"><br /><br />So I tell you good bye with the most reluctant of farewells; I did not want to leave you. But I went with the sun on my face and the sweet smell of spring in the air and that helped. And I was so grateful to have had such a good family to play with all the time and to have known the contentment of the evening after a busy day in the garden, the wonder at the stars and moon on a perfect clear night, the fun and jokes we all had with each other as another day came again and again and we got to start it all over. P33t has so many fantastic memories and loved you all more than you knew and waits for you now. If ever you find yourself on The Path, be sure to listen. First you’ll hear me; then look up-- because you’ll see me then, standing at the gate and wagging my tag with a loud and rowdy bark, in happy gratitude because the long night of our separation is finally over. Don’t forget me. I’m P33t. The Big Dog.<br /></div><div align="left"><br />P33t<br />Club Chow<br />May 11, 2010</div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-87733981699850702232010-05-10T10:12:00.000-07:002010-05-13T12:36:07.614-07:00<div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgUlq0GdcHUkcA4HDKmJO0QNf6f-WjKySMOhbkqMga9jl3bAG0vWbKeN1zZ8RA-45BIidiRWsbJJw3TCz_GnbAifB3yNFIE7DMTFLC2lMQMOo_LYJUtngPbqrS_83I-KYqmi6b/s1600/summer%25202005%2520026%5B1%5D.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 200px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 150px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5469699539045979890" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgUlq0GdcHUkcA4HDKmJO0QNf6f-WjKySMOhbkqMga9jl3bAG0vWbKeN1zZ8RA-45BIidiRWsbJJw3TCz_GnbAifB3yNFIE7DMTFLC2lMQMOo_LYJUtngPbqrS_83I-KYqmi6b/s400/summer%25202005%2520026%5B1%5D.jpg" /></a><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><em><span style="font-size:85%;">P33t</span> </em></div><div align="center"><em>October 31, 2000-May 11, 2010</em></div><div align="center"><em></em>Requiescat In Pace</div><div align="center"><em></em></div><p>It's a beautiful morning here in Bellemaison. The sun shines through the newly green leaves of the bushes and trees making the garden look like an emerald paradise of hanging cups and saucers dripping in all hues of green and sparkle, brilliant in freshness and new growth. The birds sing deliriously, happy to an extent that only birds can be, and all the things that live here scurry and scamper about, glad that the cold, dark days of winter are far over and that food and life is abundant one more. </p><div align="center"><br /></div><div align="center"></div><div align="left">So we wait, Sylvie Ruth, Cleo, Red Dorothy and I, for P33t to get his call. He's been called to go live with Santa and we are sitting with him until his time comes. We do not know why and how it was P33t who got poisoned but we know, absolutely, that the acute pain that life sometimes deals out is too, too hard. Too hard. The Chows are taking this somewhat better than me--they are completely settled that P33t will be with <a href="http://jb3ll3.blogspot.com/2007/12/bob-barker-venerated-elder-of-chow.html">Uncle Bob</a> but I cannot reconcile myself to P33t's suffering and bewilderment as this deadly toxin has settled into him, gripping his kidneys and liver, refusing to give up even in the face of the best veterinary science has to offer. I can't reconcile this surprise visit from fate or The Gods or whoever pulled P33t's card up and put it on their desktop.</div><div align="center"><br /></div><div align="center"></div><div align="left">The Chows have lived in the gardens of Bellemaison their entire life so they know that <a href="http://jb3ll3.blogspot.com/2006/02/well-chows-are-busy-busy-busy-taking.html">life</a> and <a href="http://jb3ll3.blogspot.com/2008/12/so-i-have-been-working-at-christmas.html">death</a> are completely predictable in the course of <a href="http://jb3ll3.blogspot.com/2005/12/number-of-days-until-christmas-are.html">any season</a>, even in spring. They live each day to the fullest and fall asleep exhausted each evening with no regrets. That's why The Chows will all get to go live with Santa and Uncle Bob. Their hearts are pure and unfettered with seductive pursuits and obsessions. They have a close circle of best friends that they honor and value without exception, unconditionally. Mr. Erickson, who throws milk bones over his tall hedge for them. Auntie Robbie who they invite for sleepovers when everyone else here is on the road. Cliffie, who comes on Friday and Saturday to play with them as he works in the garden and who is Their Very Best Friend. The mailman, who they've never seen, is their friend and so are the two meter readers. Although they like to bark riotously at the mailman and the meter reader, it's only just for fun. Everyone knows their role in Bellemaison. The Chows close the books on their life each and every evening and so start the day fresh, with their values keenly focused and their intents genuine. The Chows have no other aim than to be fully present in every moment for those and that whom they love. That's why they will go straight to Santa's side when the time comes. As Eugene O'Neil said, dogs do not have a narrow, jealous spirit.</div><div align="left"><br /></div><div align="left"></div><div align="left">I, on the other hand, can't get to the end of the tears. Just can't seem to find the end. Syvie comes and sits by my hip as I write, lifting hopeful eyes into my face, imploring me to be strong. That hurts even worse. She now guards P33t as he sleeps deeply and peacefully and then comes back to my side, laying down and stretching out fully with a big sigh. You're never quite have enought of you to be there for everyone you love. </div><div align="left"></div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5469700068966143170" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjqP_h7O3WUMi0NEIIiL82YB5j7DCVYWitg-uFsh5Gt1dmIkTjmEwXL1DUckozhtGFa-YXmOwc47LolwIK4S98h2ehcft57orWdSuO8U6GTD1cYdP_eVPUjTxqKOR765d05CGB/s400/sylviep33t.jpg" /><br /><br />JBelle<br />Bellemaison<br />The 'Kan EWAJBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-70210959845799472712010-04-17T20:46:00.000-07:002010-05-10T10:11:32.651-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEbJFS9ugolezHx2e2fD1N1bb3n1xe2EsfVYwcioJKU4sgocJf1k_wcBhBVh2abhEKe7v3aHKvfS1UZhNS4_VoXP_MRq5HpB8ydscytvl8UUvSIWJUictR1N0uYXghFHtIV_ZF/s1600/DSC_3411%5B1%5D.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5469690165347450770" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEbJFS9ugolezHx2e2fD1N1bb3n1xe2EsfVYwcioJKU4sgocJf1k_wcBhBVh2abhEKe7v3aHKvfS1UZhNS4_VoXP_MRq5HpB8ydscytvl8UUvSIWJUictR1N0uYXghFHtIV_ZF/s400/DSC_3411%5B1%5D.JPG" /></a><br /><div>So I’m here in Indio, the Palm Desert of California, one of the most beautiful and posh places on earth. We drove in through Death Valley from Las Vegas, past the Joshua trees and cacti in bloom; the mystery , magic and tonic of the mountains drawing us ever closer. It is spectacular and serene here as we now fully savor the embrace of springtime in the desert.<br /><br />I was fortunate enough, LUCKY enough, blessed beyond description enough, to be invited to go to <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coachella_Valley_Music_and_Arts_Festival">Coachella</a>. Not too many of my friends go to rock festivals so much anymore so this was a unique opportunity in itself but as it turns, Jay-Z, the voice of the latest generation, was to be here, headlining. Jay-Z, THAT guy. The one that used to deal drugs. That dark-mouthed, filthy talking black guy. Yup. That one. So this was a UUUGE opportunity. One that would make me stop anything I was doing to hop aboard the Let’s Get It Started Train.<br /><br />Jay- Z fascinates me. Absolutely fascinates me. He rose from his roots in Bed-Stuy in New York to become THE icon of the music industry, incredibly successful in a wide range of related and unrelated business activities, managing to land a really nice girl from a good family down south who herself just happens to be the ruling crown princess of pop music. He gathered up his girl, married her, and at this date, the two reign as Mr. and Mr. Entertainment of the New Millennium with no apologies. The new Brad and Angie of music and show business, Jay-Z and Beyonce are, without qualification, the hottest ticket around.<br /><br />As much as I admire his ambition, as it turns out, it’s Jay Z’s music that I really, really like. It is smart, it is funny, it is ironic, expressive and reflective. And sexy. Such an interesting, interesting, interesting guy, this Shawn Carter. He speaks at length about growing up in The Hood and making his way through the gauntlet of legal and illegal opportunities available to the denizens of his neighborhood. It’s quite explicit for a white girl like me; a white girl from Coeur d’Alene. But as I stood among the diverse population of Southern California last night, heck the entire world, under the dull, dark skies of midnight, I realized Jay Z is only explicit to me and my people, the white Presbyterians from small towns in Idaho. Jay Z speaks to and of a life that is quite prevalent, quite true, quite real, quite American, even if I have no direct knowledge of it. He witnesses the pain and suffering of his youth and his people and speaks with the integrity of the first person. With no apologies. A lot of the people I was with last night knew exactly what he was talking about and it was only explicit to them in that Jay Z nailed their adolescent chronicles perfectly.<br /><br />Listening to his music is like reading the Op Ed Section of the New York Times on a really, really good day when Egan, Friedman, Fish and the like are all hitting every single high note and banging every single low one hard. My absolute favorite song is the one where he talks about the myriad of things that plague his day and what he has to go through to get through. He has business, artistic and assorted other issues that are chronic and unrelenting and makes the point, quite nicely, that his life is just a little more complicated and demanding than a sad love life. It actually is a nice illustration of the Maslovian Pyramid of Needs, saying that before you can ever self-actualize, your basic needs of security and safety must be met. The climax and refrain of this brilliant effort, that succinctly lays out what so many of us want to blurt out? “I’ve got 99 problems and a bitch ain’t one. Hit me.”<br /><br />Of course, Jay Z has only the most talented and accomplished musicians working for him so that Hit Me part is masterful, masterful guitar riff that rips through your gut, travels up your backbone like summer lighting, then makes the fillings in your molars hum as if they were your cell phone on vibrate. HIT MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. How can you not love this stuff? And confess in your heart, Dude, I am SO glad you said that. That exact thing has been rolling around inside me for ages. AGES. HIT MEE! Jay-Z gets you in touch with every fucking thing that has been bothering you today and this month and shakes it all right out, whirls it through the air and lets you watch it explode into fireworks in the sky. Whooo wheee. Seriously sexy stuff.<br /><br />If most people last night were like me, the highlight of Jay-Z’s performance was Forever Young, the song he originally did in collaboration with a guy referred to as Mr. Hudson. The song talks about staying young or living forever; surely life is too sweet, too delicious to only be a one-time thing or even finite. Mr. Hudson sings in a plaintive manner highly reminiscent of Sting and is a lovely, lovely listen. Our Boy Jay-Z comes in with his deep bass saying,<br /><br />We live life like a video<br />Where is the sun is always out<br />Where you never get old<br />The champagne is always cold<br />And the music’s always good<br />And the pretty girls just happen to stop by in the hood.<br />…Just a picture perfect day<br />That lasts a whole life time<br />And it never ends ‘cause all we have to do is hit rewind.<br /><br />It, of course, in the 2010 rendition of the Grass Roots’ hit, Live For Today, but is oh so lovelier, smarter, nicer than the Grass Roots banging drum wail of the 60’s. Jay-Z speaks about living fully in each moment and letting tomorrow sort itself out, not losing today to fretful worries yet absolutely making the most of every opportunity:<br /><br />…Leave a mark that can’t erase<br />Neither space<br />nor time.<br />So when the director yells cut,<br />I’ll be fine.<br /><br />The thing about it that was so magnificent last night is that he brought someone on stage to sing the Mr. Hudson part that he refused to introduce, saying, She’s someone who needs no introduction. The crowd went absolutely nuts of course, because it was his drop-dead gorgeous wife, Beyonce, looking very south of France in cut offs and a white torn tee shirt off the shoulder. She appeared as if an apparition and began to sing and this tough, tough, smart bad ass from the hood melted in a chocolate puddle on the stage. If he’s the businessman and poet in the family, she’s the singer and as she widened her stance, threw back her head and sang, <em>foreeeevvvvvvver younnnnnnng,</em> we all believed as he did, that this was the only moment ever, listening to Beyonce Knowles sing under the starry night skies of the Palm Desert. We held hands with Jay-Z and swayed to the music in the darkness together as this exquisite nightbird lit up the sky and our hearts with her song.<br /><br />The fireworks went off, she glowed, skipped off stage; he beamed and clutched his microphone like a little boy who just found the golden egg at the Easter Egg Hunt and we were all elevated and transported into our own Ponce de Leon moment. Fireworks in the sky indeed!<br /><br />Jay-Z then did a thing that I have never seen. He took a moment, in what seemed to be an impromptu gesture, and had the houselights turned up. He said, I know you are there. And I just want to see you. He had the cameras pan to the different signs, directing the signs to be held up, saying I see that sign. Telling the girl in the Yankee cap, in the bikini top, with the Lakers shirt, that he saw her. You, waving at me in the white t shirt, I see you Baby Girl, I see you. You, guy in the Philly shirt, I see you. You, baby girl, You! With the pink thing I SEE YOU. I see you…out there, guy with your shirt off…lookin’ like…lookin’ like…the situation…I see you. I see you. It was possibly one of the most electric moments in a live performance I have ever seen. He talked back and forth across the audience and yet back again, calling out to his people, recognizing them one by one. He wanted it said that he knows them, he sees them, he is them. It was a servant gratefully acknowledging the benevolence of a master and a loving gesture of pure humility in the most unexpected moment. I do not know if I have ever seen a performer show such respect to an audience.<br /><br />And that well could be the essence of his art: he arises from among them, us, and speaks in first person of what exactly it’s like. Without apology or clarification. With respect and generosity. Acknowledging the reality of the moment. Pulling no punches. And saying, I am only this because of you.<br /><br />So I was schooled last night on bad ass, muthafuckas from The Hood. I continue to be a student and continue to be grateful. And it is my most fervent wish that when the director yells cut,<br /><br />I’ll be fine.<br /><br />I’ll be fine...<br /><br /><br /><br />JBelle<br />On Assignment<br />Indio, California</div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-70210047635758191452010-03-27T06:12:00.001-07:002010-04-17T20:31:18.365-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUtIPMiR30P8ZP-jJ5VgRELNFXkBkuR41W4W9R4DldkswPc72CUOYpE7Zbx4yu6NUJ4Zh4mSXXR5OT1QwDugIWMHqoB3922PtrS04PVd1b0GFb1d-Im0OwrvXMqoAzk29jdkJE/s1600/DSC_0130_3959.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5461314930209483762" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUtIPMiR30P8ZP-jJ5VgRELNFXkBkuR41W4W9R4DldkswPc72CUOYpE7Zbx4yu6NUJ4Zh4mSXXR5OT1QwDugIWMHqoB3922PtrS04PVd1b0GFb1d-Im0OwrvXMqoAzk29jdkJE/s400/DSC_0130_3959.jpg" /></a><br /><div>So Cliffie and The Chows have the garden in tip top shape. They've been working at it all along over this playday of a winter we've had--since we cut down the chrysanthemums and put up the Christmas lights, shortly before Halloween. Mild winter, early spring. El Nino. Global warming. Your call.<br /><br />But the flowers bloom in Bellemaison this morning which has never happened this early since I have lived here. So it will be a long spring and a longer summer. Easter is finally here, after what seems an interminable Lent, even if the snow did not fly and the rain did not whirl about us in gray tornadoes of gloom. It's an odd time.<br /><br />The politicians continue to live out their fondest fantasies in the The True American Nightmare. I think if their mothers were alive it would all be different. I have to believe the mothers of those people would put a stop to it all. Wouldn't they? Cliffie pointed out that the tea partiers and the citizens with the foul mouths, bad tempers and long forgotten manners might be excused in all this because they are unemployed, have been unemployed, suffer each and every day with such whereas of course, the politicians, all the members of Congress, have not missed a meal, a vacation nor , ahem, a doctor's appointment or a procedure since the recession settled in for a nice long visit. And I agree with Cliffie. I can excuse the frustration of those in need but I cannot and will not look kindly on those fat, gouty cats of Congress who apparently aim to master the art of form over substance and contention, argument, and polarity. shame.<br /><br />Shame. All during Lent, too. Beautiful, ironic missed opportunity to think it all through. The days wander on, even though the air is still, but it's as though someone has pushed pause. I feel paused in my heart and just hope that when someone finally pushes play and the dialogue and sound resume, my heart awakes and lives.<br /><br /><br />JBelle<br />Bellemaison<br />The 'Kan EWA</div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-41476141539257708032010-02-28T12:45:00.000-08:002010-02-28T13:05:03.419-08:00It's a late winter's day here in The 'Kan EWA and the sun shines beautiful and weak, warming itself up, getting ready, for what surely will be a long and delicious spring.<br /><br />So many inputs and stimuli rolling around my head and my heart. Went to Pat and Diane's Golden Wedding anniversary yesterday; it was brilliant. Had a million pictures, three videos and her dress on display in the foyer of the church. So, so loving, romantic and sensual--the entire afternoon. Fifty years.<br /><br />Got beautiful flowers at the Pike Street Market on Friday: daffodils, cherry blossoms and laurel. It's gets so dark here, so still and so cold. I do love winter in the great Pacific Northwest and yet every year without fail, spring relieves a very real longing and yearning deep inside me and brings respite. Hope.<br /><br />Been watching the Olympics as if my kid, my brother and my roommate in college was on every single team. God, what a magnificent time it's been in Canada. Loved the bobsled, loved the ski cross, speed skating, and the hockey. But those guys that do the skeleton are absolutely nuts. But then, they always were, I guess. Have just loved the games in Vancouver.<br /><br />And would really love to go to South Africa to the World Cup. Have to go to Las Vegas next weekend instead. Gonzaga basketball is utterly boring and without one spark of inspiration. It's now officially become formulaic basketball, a perfect equation to bring profit and acclaim to the university, with heart not being a factor in Gonzaga's game and program because it's not necessary to the bottom line. I'll go and wear my red shirt and be Zaggish but I'll be thinking about the new Elvis/Cirque du Soleil show that I'm going to see and the spring scarves at Hermes and about making my deadlines at work and trying to find my way back home.<br /><br />I've gotta find my way back home.<br /><br /><br />JBelle<br />Bellemaison<br />The 'Kan EWAJBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-6217602470028639742010-02-04T06:55:00.001-08:002010-02-28T15:30:08.064-08:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUS9s4qtqYUx2DeQv1PQ04bAytckprRJXcSsb4vQYxqNiBAqhN-yfU_v7HATz__DFpA089wzg9XzT7c7L8SyaIgrxPz5qfmF8JkrONtIi50NYjaxwCeC_095Uqzp7AwjWPI876/s1600-h/DSC_0173_4002.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5443440704266131282" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUS9s4qtqYUx2DeQv1PQ04bAytckprRJXcSsb4vQYxqNiBAqhN-yfU_v7HATz__DFpA089wzg9XzT7c7L8SyaIgrxPz5qfmF8JkrONtIi50NYjaxwCeC_095Uqzp7AwjWPI876/s400/DSC_0173_4002.jpg" /></a><br /><div>So it's comforting to have a place to go when things really start to fall apart. It's good then that finally the words start to come but still-- it feels guilty a bit, as though I only come here out of need. Maybe it's okay to only come here out of need. Fact, it's got to be okay for now.<br /><br /><br /><br />I was watching The Godfather movies long, long, long before they become cinema classics and the lessons of The Godfather became chic talk at cocktail parties. Part II was always the most painful because of course, it drilled down into that relationship classic, treachery and betrayal. Michael's betrayal by his brother in Part II is not the main course of the story however; it's Michael's response to betrayal, his reaction to treachery that is the <em>real</em> story and the stuff that entire lives are made of, both on the screen and in our own personal little stories. And how one embraces and absorbs treachery and then betrayal just well may be the only story worthy of telling once the house lights of our lives come up and the janitors enter the vanquished darkness to sweep.<br /><br /><br /><br />Our Lord, Jesus Christ, set the model that probably is the source from where all other reactions to treachery and betrayal are spun and derivatives arise. Unlike Michael Corleone, He leaned into his betrayal and did not respond nor fight back, becoming his closest's post use waste. It worked fine for his betrayers because it allowed them to enact what they might have believed was their destiny and at the very least allowed them to have their way. Express themselves in the oppression of the ministry and the generosity that was Our Lord's. He let them have what everyone thought surely was the last word. And they were triumphant. Mighty.<br /><br />In the moment. We all know ultimately how that story ended and how each of the parties' subsequent lives played out; I would summarize it briefly by saying this: love conquers all. everytime.<br /><br />Everytime.<br /><br /><br />So. You want a piece of me? Help yourself. There's enough to go around. Take all you want and take your time. And don't worry about turning out the lights when you are done. It'll all be taken care of.<br /><br /><br />JBelle<br />Bellemaison<br />The 'Kan EWA</div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-12149219647582246582010-01-17T21:13:00.000-08:002010-02-04T07:36:56.362-08:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhg5y9aon2IlNaDRoDzXzWDubTpKJveoDfA38q1kvo58PGgInF8y7cGVa7_5M5YzQ9S2y3UhFALrfqI59d4OdbXIlrcKypUK78hNE8vMA7phT9L0ik9vz3lXjbEx-tX__aixVeN/s1600-h/DSC_0041_3892.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5434412711259371154" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhg5y9aon2IlNaDRoDzXzWDubTpKJveoDfA38q1kvo58PGgInF8y7cGVa7_5M5YzQ9S2y3UhFALrfqI59d4OdbXIlrcKypUK78hNE8vMA7phT9L0ik9vz3lXjbEx-tX__aixVeN/s400/DSC_0041_3892.jpg" /></a><br /><div>And after the pictures were taken and they had time to think about it, Sunny and Ella came back to tell me that their brother Mac was collecting money to help Haiti, too. Mac works in the family restaurant on Sundays with his dad so I stopped by get a picture of him. He was over at the grocery store getting milk but came back soon enough for this shot. Think these parents should be given a Nobel Peace Prize for the values they are instilling in their children?<br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5427944360271712306" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhB3oSY62Nbyct8q28b62rTopQLeXNeeiOdnwKj3VlZXbRbxZhSKhj7qMkcX_agKOB6hTdtdcLfuEi9HrqCurPseMd-5mbw4bvB8EqtjkeijLpV1oJviwhWcKE6ghGBN5xPYpYX/s400/DSC_0186_4012.jpg" /><br /><br /><br /><p>JBelle<br />Bellemaison<br />The 'Kan EWA<br /></p></div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-41200378940940897722010-01-17T11:26:00.000-08:002010-01-17T11:59:35.816-08:00So they just show up. Like they always do except this time they bring reinforcements: their cousins. They ring the doorbell and say We are going around to collect money to help the Red Cross help the people in Haiti. If you could give money, we would appreciate it. And don't worry about giving a lot; anything helpsssss. These two angels that live next door, who inextricably appear in the most random of moments, arcing the air with their fairy dust, magic, generosity and kindness. Extraordinary, extraordinary children. But then I've mentioned that before...<br /><br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5427796173170807570" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAj-wg9mApLD5RkBGEq5rGM3nNA55LMpVN0mUrIi4j568vIZDvjkO-Ujvdu6tkGefSdAx_8Iea4xgW4IFUxY-nKmDiuvKHu6-R1i-XpKwLMcAZwPW7FnjY5bAChOkES7JvOzMM/s400/DSC_0104_3843.jpg" /> <img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5427796314514968418" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9ZP-em8vLUxhLZ-GvxBc1MiHzGEy1Vc6_86IfSMBqjg7dG7DBTyJMOh0_ca7eIabJr5BDDXX_7M6EIlT1YUzUM5SO4Q4R97-EP3o8yJhkVEj3K4y9LswDBzYF4Mj8xsY_oRSW/s400/DSC_0109_3848.jpg" /><br />JBelle<br />Bellemaison<br />The 'Kan EWAJBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13939465.post-87165464628292015702010-01-14T09:29:00.001-08:002010-01-17T11:44:39.821-08:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRtocJidIfr-tiOtjxm5p39C2oIvHmZEUg83WhB-fGw_bHiio00ileFuBtUSYRMlW8scLHlgGyGhKntLmiAGBTmcIU-eoimC6m3jUp1kXFkAg9JtEcBcRYSYe-svpk6VUMRqtf/s1600-h/DSC_0018_3812.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 268px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5427797014239519778" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRtocJidIfr-tiOtjxm5p39C2oIvHmZEUg83WhB-fGw_bHiio00ileFuBtUSYRMlW8scLHlgGyGhKntLmiAGBTmcIU-eoimC6m3jUp1kXFkAg9JtEcBcRYSYe-svpk6VUMRqtf/s400/DSC_0018_3812.jpg" /></a><br /><div>We had people in to dinner here at Bellemaison last night. It was an evening of food, friends and fun. The Chows were quite delighted how everything--the table, the flowers, the conversation--turned out and marked a recipe for you to see. But first, I want to say how much strength I gain from my friends. Melody struck a deep note within me as she continues her courageous battle with brain cancer. She's tough and resolute and has not lost one bit of her funny, feminine, experienced ways. She came to dinner in a cute pair of black slacks, a very sexy black, suede sweater with lovely evening makeup and her hat. She doesn't go anywhere without a hat. She's currently going through chemo again but has and will keep all her hair except for the one inch swath of scalp running from the crown of her head down to the back of her ear. That's the scar from surgery. Because of radiation, she will never grow hair there again. She is petite, lovely, funny and fun. I love her deeply and am scared by her calm in the battle of her lifetime. Of any one's lifetime.<br /><br />Katie was here, too; she's limping into the dugout after her battle with breast cancer. She's run the bases and made it home. I do not want her to have another at bat. How can I control that? How can I fix her if she does get up again? I cannot. Now that I have lived enough, I know I cannot. I cannot fix Katie. She's inventive, creative, incredibly feminine and lovely and has a soft, caring and gentle touch. She carries the wisdom of the ages with her. When I called her for dinner, she was working on a lesson for a class she teaches to a group of women. She was going to teach on God's creation and so made, by hand, a flower pin for each of the women who had signed up to come to her class. She brought one for me, and for Melody, and they are exquisite! looped felt around a beaded center, perfectly finished front and back. Mine has a little feather petal in it; I shall carry this pin proudly and go in love, knowing that in our lifetimes, we all have to run the bases and then if we have to run them again, we do so with love from each other and in perfect accordance with God's creation. God, what an evening. I feel like I have a PhD in grace this morning. Not that I earned it, I just observed it.<br /><br />So. The recipe. It's my thought that if you really want to please people at dinner, you absolutely can't go wrong with pork, dairy and salt. Sugar's good, too and should be given your full consideration. I usually don't do much dairy in January after December's carotid blow out of hedonism but fixed this dish last night with a nod to my buddy, The Beermaker. It's from the Nordstrom cookbook, <em>Friends and Family</em>.<br /><br />And you thought I only bought shoes at Nordstrom.<br /><br /><br /><span style="font-family:lucida grande;font-size:180%;"><strong>Roasted Asparagus Gratin</strong></span><br /><br /><br />2 pounds jumbo asparagus, tough ends removed and lower half each spear peeled<br /><br />3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil<br /><br />Kosher salt<br /><br />Freshly ground black pepper<br /><br />1 Tablespoon fresh lemon juice<br /><br />1 Tablespoon unsalted butter<br /><br />1 clove garlic, minced<br /><br />1 Tablespoon minced shallot<br /><br />2 cups heavy cream<br /><br />3/4 cup freshly grated Parmigiano-Reggiano cheese<br /><br />2 Tablespoons coarsely shaved Parmigiano-Reggiano cheese<br /><br />2 Tablespoons unseasoned dried bread crumbs<br /><br />Position a rack int he upper third of the oven and preheat the oven to 450F. IN a shallow dish, toss the asparagus with the olive oil, a little salt and pepper, and the lemon juice until the spears are perfectly coated.<br /><br />Roast the asparagus until the spears are just beginning to brown yet are still crisp and tender, about 12 minutes. Remove from the oven and drain off the excess oil.<br /><br />Meanwhile, in a 2-quart saucepan over medium heat, melt the butter. Add the garlic and shallot and saute, stirring constantly, until the shallot is translucent, about 2 minutes. Add the cream and simmer, uncovered, until reduced by one third, about 6 minutes. Stir in the grated Parmesan cheese and season to taste with salt and pepper.<br /><br />Arrange the asparagus in a ovenproof serving dish and spoon the Parmesan cream sauce over the spears, allowing the tips and bases to remain uncovered. Scatter the shaved Parmesan over the top and sprinkle with the bread crumbs. Bake until nicely browned, about 5 minutes. Serve immediately.<br /><br /><br />JBelle<br />Bellemaison<br />The 'Kan EWA</div>JBellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06058881790600891805noreply@blogger.com4